who prepares the male child for marriage?
The last time somebody went to the police to report, the police were just laughing, “your wife dey beat you?”.
As we grow, we begin to concentrate on the girl child(when you sitdown, close your legs. Don’t wear any provocative dress. You must know how to cook. when your mother-in-law comes, this is how you do. You must give your husband sex. You must do this)….
WHO PREACHES TO THE MALE CHILD? WHO PREPARE THE MALE CHILD FOR MARRIAGE?
So, the male child grows up, he notices that daddy or the male figure is always in charge in church and ministry. The male figure is always in charge in politics. The male figure is always in charge in the society and then, he grows up with an ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY. It even made worse when mummies will tell the children, if you are a girl, “come to the kitchen”, while the boys are playing football.
So, the boy grows up, gets into marriage, looking for a cook. Are there not many boys that can not prepare moimoi?
Is marriage suppose to be with tears? This is how we started it. And charity begins at home!
So, the child saw daddy that mummy could not confront daddy, daddy was the lion of the tribe of the family. Daddy gives out money to the house help. Infact, sometimes, when daddy is upset, daddy refuses to eat(He’s not hungry, when he’s hungry, he will go and microwave the food of yesterday).
So, the boy grew up, seeing daddy as untouchable..
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